The origins of a child becoming bar or bat mitzvah (meaning, son or daughter of the commandment) are based in the emergence of a 13-year-old child into legal adulthood. After a young person’s thirteenth birthday, s/he is granted the rights reserved for adults - reading from the Torah and being counted as part of a minyan.
Today, the occasion still contains a tremendous affirmation of continuity and pride. The actual ceremony of becoming a bar/bat mitzvah is included in the ritual of regular community Shabbat services. The student shows that he/she is prepared to take on responsibilities in Jewish life when he/she reads from Torah and leads the congregation in worship, thus demonstrating what he/she has learned and his/her familiarity with our tradition. However, becoming a bar/bat mitzvah bestows no magical and instant transformation. At age 13 our children are still children, and will remain so for years to come. A bar/bat mitzvah celebrates the process of becoming a Jewish adult committed to observing mitzvot. It takes guidance from parents and many years of learning to accomplish this goal. But it is a goal within the reach of our children, and one worth striving for. Becoming an acknowledged son or daughter of the Jewish people is the beginning of Jewish study - opening a window to a lifetime of Jewish learning.
We attach great importance to these celebrations and take seriously both the preparation and the commitments that we ask of our students. Please be assured that we will work closely with you to answer questions you may have. During the process of a child’s preparation, your family will meet privately with our Rabbi, and your child obtains approximately six months of individualized tutoring from our tutors. Of course, please feel free to contact any of us for counsel or guidance.
We look forward to a wonderful and rewarding family celebration!
July 27, 2013
Alexandra Slatkin will become a Bat Mitzvah on July 27, 2013. She is the daughter of Suzanne Slatkin and Robert Slatkin and younger sister to Rebecca.
Alexandra is a rising 8th grader at Seneca Ridge Middle School She enjoys singing, dancing, performing in plays and baking.
For her Bat Mitzvah project, Alexandra fundraised and participated in the Light the Night Walk for Leukemia and Lymphoma.
She looks forward to celebrating this special day with her family and friends.
August 10, 2013
Sawyer Rylee Zelman will become a Bat Mitzvah on August 10, 2013. She is the daughter of Shawn and Jeff Zelman. She has two sisters, older sister Taylor and younger sister Skylar.
Sawyer is a rising 8th grader at Harper Park Middle School in Leesburg. She enjoys soccer, reading, going to Disney World, and talking.
For her Bat Mitzvah project, Sawyer summarized books with Jewish themes on her blog.
She thanks her teachers Marshall Medoff, Dr. Carol Currier, and Jason Soifer. Sawyer looks forward to celebrating her special day with her family and friends.
To download our B’nai Mitzvah Handbook, please click here.
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To download the B'nai Mitzvah Community Service Record, please click here.
Beth Chaverim Reform Congregation
21740 Beaumeade Circle Suite 100
Ashburn, VA 20147 USA
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